Kevin Fischer is a veteran broadcaster, the recipient of over 150 major journalism awards from the Milwaukee Press Club, the Wisconsin Associated Press, the Northwest Broadcast News Association, the Wisconsin Bar Association, and others. He has been seen and heard on Milwaukee TV and radio stations for over three decades. A longtime aide to state Senate Republicans in the Wisconsin Legislature, Kevin can be seen offering his views on the news on the public affairs program, "InterCHANGE," on Milwaukee Public Television Channel 10, and heard filling in on Newstalk 1130 WISN. He lives with his wife, Jennifer, and their lovely young daughter, Kyla Audrey, in Franklin.
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This week I open with a re-print of my entire Culinary no-no #18 blog from September 23, 2007:
I’ve never been a waiter, and judging from the impolite and condescending attitude of many customers, I don’t think I’d ever want to be.
Many diners I’ve observed seem to have never heard of the words, “Please,” or “Thank you.”
Some customers are downright bullies.
I recall seeing a table of patrons at a casual restaurant complain to the owner when the waitress didn’t come to the table quickly enough in their opinion. Their complaint didn’t have merit in my opinion. Even so, the manager fired the waitress on the spot.
On another occasion, I saw a middle-aged woman dining alone, dressed in fur coat and jeans. She apparently picked up a bottle of A-1 sauce and spilled some on her fur that she had not taken off. The woman was furious. She summoned for her waitress and launched into a verbal assault, claiming she should have advised her that the cap on the A-1 bottle was loose, that the restaurant would have to buy her a new coat, and that the waitress should be terminated. Despite the scene the woman created, she didn’t get a new fur coat and the waitress kept her job.
Being a waiter/waitress isn’t easy.
The Consumer Health Interactive reports, “Many people enjoy waiting tables for the good tips and lively human drama. But the job also serves up high stress, exhaustion, and a fat menu of kitchen hazards.”
Page Bierma writes that besides stress, servers face a plateful of problems:
Repetitive stress injury including carpal tunnel syndrome
Slippery floors that can lead to accidents
Backaches and sore muscle
You can read Page Bierma’s entire column, “Waiting for a Living.”
So the job is difficult. It’s also thankless. You’ve got complaints about waiters and waitresses? They’re not always thrilled with you.
The late restaurant critic of the Milwaukee Journal/Sentinel, Dennis Getto wrote the following in 1996:
Servers have plenty to beef about
They give customers some tips on boorish behaviors to avoid
DENNIS R. GETTO
Journal Sentinel restaurant critic
Published: February 11, 1996
We've given restaurant gripes a lot of coverage over the last month.
It all started Jan. 14, when I wrote a column about practices that aggravated me, such as being ignored or not being served water.
Then readers responded with their complaints: mishandled drinking glasses and coffee cups, and vacuum cleaners running under the table while they were finishing lunch. There's a third take on the restaurant world, and it comes from the workers who have to deal with the public daily - the waiters, waitresses and managers whose job it is to keep diners satisfied and coming back.
I hadn't realized how tough the business can be until I heard from workers who read my original gripe column. They weren't as numerous as the diners who sounded off, but they made some good points.
Doris Janke, who will mark her 20th year as a waitress at what is now Bakers Square in West Allis this November, took me to task for criticizing waiters and waitresses who ask, "Do you need change?" (I took it to mean they were automatically asking for a tip.) Janke set me straight by explaining that the question really means, "What kind of change do you want?"
"People often hand me a $20 bill," she said. "I can't guess whether they want singles or $5 bills." So she asks the customers, and saves herself an extra trip back to the cash register.
Janke said that some servers handle silverware or glasses improperly but countered that with some of the unsanitary actions of customers. "People leave dirty diapers wrapped up in napkins or blow their nose on a napkin and then leave it on the table for the waitress or the busboy to handle."
At Bakers Square, she said, dispensers in the kitchen hold anti-bacterial hand lotion, and she and the other waitresses use it frequently.
As for water not being served automatically, waitress Skaidrite E. Huttl reminded me that the practice got some of its momentum from Milwaukee's Cryptosporidium crisis.
When the bacteria hit, she wrote, many folks stopped drinking their water and, subsequently, some places quit serving it. "But anyone who wishes may have a glass of water."
As a waitress in private clubs, Huttl also reported that she's surprised how many folks don't know their etiquette, such as what piece of silverware to use for a given course. It always helps to know that the shorter fork is for salad and the round spoon is for soup.
George K. Jones, a graduate of the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, N.Y., has worked in many well-known restaurants in town, including the English Room, Grenadier's and Mader's. Now managing a private club, he offered some suggestions for diners who want to ensure good service:
"Please make reservations," Jones said. "It allows the restaurant to staff properly . . . And if you aren't coming, please call. And don't make a reservation for 6 p.m. and then sit at the bar for an hour and ask to be seated at 7 p.m."
"Tell your servers of any time constraints when you're seated," Jones said. Some diners will wait until 20 minutes before curtain time to tell the waiter or waitress that they have to leave for a show.
Pay attention when servers are telling you about the special. In some cases, Jones said, a server will have to repeat the soup of the day to a party eight times.
"If there's something wrong, let us know right away," Jones said. That way, the problem can be fixed. Too many people wait a week and then send a letter when they should have brought up the problem right away.
"The thing that restaurants want to do is satisfy their customers," Jones said. "We can't do that unless you tell us something is wrong."
--Dennis Getto, Milwaukee Journal, February 11, 1996
So, for many reasons, do not disrespect your server.
Culinary no-no #18, This Just In…, September 23, 2007
It’s now 2014 and I still see arrogant restaurant customers, often dressed like bums, acting as though they’re royal blue bloods and the wait staff is the gum under their shoes. The hired help has to smile through it all because even the customer isn’t always right, the customer is always right.
Through feedback either written on cards left with customers or via the Internet, diners get to judge their servers who because of the razor-thin profit margin in the restaurant business are paid a piddly wage and must depend on tips for their very survival.
But what if the tables could be reversed? What if when a bunch of jerkosauruses leaves the restaurant a waiter or waitress can go to a computer and list information about the party including how poorly they behaved so the restaurant can be prepared for them next time?
In some places, wait staff is now actually reviewing the people they serve.
Some might the possibility they’re being studied closely and graded as humiliating, even intimidating and may choose to dine elsewhere. In an incredibly competitive industry, that could prove to be costly. So it might not be for every restaurant, of course.
When dining out, I fear no examination of my conduct. And if I pass, maybe a complimentary dessert or drink at the bar would be in order, thus addressing the potential loss of customers who might frown upon being observed too closely.
Wait staff turning into critics? I like it.
CULINARY NO-NO BONUSES
How Your Tax Dollars Are Making America Fat. That's bad enough. Even worse is the solution offered by two Democrats.
Politico: "First lady Michelle Obama and school lunch ladies used to be on the same team, but now they’re locked in a political war against each other."
How tough is the restaurant business? Ask this guy.
A new health food for men? I know guys can be stupid but c'mon!